February 5, 2001
This week's Boyfriend ought to get a couple thousand of you off my backs
for awhile. You've been begging, pleading, and crying for me to feature
Benicio Del Toro for roughly thirty-six-billion years now (you
know, give or take). So, here! Here he is! Take him! Wait, no, scratch that last part. Just leave him here. For
me. Because I love Benicio and you can't have him. For one week,
anyway, he belongs to me and me alone. However, because I'm so nice, I'll
share. You guys deserve it, after all, just as much as I do. But
let's just make sure we all keep in mind who's in charge around here,
got it? As I told most of you who emailed me, I was waiting to feature Benicio
until I had a chance to see at least ONE of the three movies he has out in
theaters at the moment. And, I got my chance, finally, and saw "Traffic"
the weekend before last. I knew "Traffic" was about the war on drugs and
I knew Benicio was in it and that he played a cop. But what nobody had
bothered to mention to me was that he spoke entirely in Espanol during the
movie (there are subtitles, though, so don't worry). Holy cow, compadres,
Benicio with his pudgy little "I Ate Too Many of Whatever the Mexican
Equivalent to Doughnuts Is" cop-belly was torture enough (I love men with
little bellies), throw in a foreign language, and I'm a goner for
sure. Plus, I speak a little Spanish myself (started learning it in grade
school and studied it all through junior high and high school). So, it's
always nice to listen to it and see how much I can still remember and
figure out on my own. Which, unfortunately, is not actually much, as it
turns out. That's what happens when you study one romance language for
years and then add another one on top of it later (I added French). The
two languages become all twisted in your head and pretty soon, you're
saying things like, "Hola, amigos! Ca va?" The natives of either country aren't sure what to do with you then.
Though, obviously, the French probably mind it a lot less than the
Spanish, since the French had nothing but scorn for you before you even
opened your mouth, you stewpid Americain. And anything stupid you do
after that is just more fuel for their self-righteous loathing, and
therefore, they're probably actually semi-grateful to you for it. Not that I have anything against the French. Ahem. Si. I've also recently seen the movie "Snatch," another one of the three
Benicio flicks out at the moment. In this one, Benicio has a
relatively small part, but one that is well worth the time spent. And, in
fact, despite the fact he doesn't last too long, the rest of the movie is
such a hoot, I heartily recommend it. It's probably the first and last
time, in any case, that you'll get to see Benicio Del Toro all dressed up
like an Orthodox Jew. I should also warn a few of you that after
seeing this and "Fight Club," my resolve against featuring Brad Pitt
is starting to weaken. I'll keep trying to hold it down, but I make
no more promises. But let's go backwards in time a bit now, and I'll tell you all about
my past experiences with Benicio. To be honest, it's been only recently
that I've discovered Benicio Del Toro is actually an absolute babe. My
first two BDT experiences were "The Usual Suspects," a part for which he
had shaved his brows and hairline and practiced speaking completely
incoherently, and "Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas," a part for which he
gained about 45 pounds by, as he says, "eating chairs, tables, buildings,
and bridges. But what really pushed the balance was donuts." In neither
part could BDT fairly and accurately be described as "pretty." Being
hilarious counts for a fair bit in my book, so there was always a little
something about Benicio that intrigued me. But something about him as
Oscar Zeta Acosta kind of kept the fire from fully igniting. Since then, though, I've seen him in a heap of other movies, including
(unfortunately) his debut movie, "Big Top Pee-Wee" (he played Duke the
Dog-Faced Boy). Most of them have been pretty decent movies and where
they were only borderline, the presence of Benicio definitely kept them
from tumbling over into the abyss. I'm thinking specifically of "Excess
Baggage" right now -- a movie in which Benicio plays a sort of reluctant
kidnapper and in which he is almost unbearably cute. It is, in fact, that
movie that elicited the "hey, that guy's actually kinda cute" reaction
from me, at long last (even though I wasn't all that impressed with the
movie itself). And after that, everything I've seen Benicio in has made
me all goopy on the inside. A little background on the Boyfriend: he was born on February 19, 1967
in Santurce, PR. When he was 9, his mother died after a lengthy battle
against hepatitis. Benicio says his first "role" as an actor was back
when he used to spend time with his ailing mother, trying to make her
laugh to keep her spirits up. He says he took her death surprisingly
well, probably because he was so young when it happened, it just seemed
like it was a part of "the tree of life." But he has also said the only
movie she ever took him to was "Papillon," and ever since, it's been his
favorite movie of all time. Benicio was a troublemaker in school, probably to call attention to
himself. He rebelled against his father as well and this conflict got
even worse after his father remarried. Because they could not get along
(the new wife, the father, and Benicio), Benny's father allowed him to
travel to Pennsylvania to go to a boarding school. He threw himself into
sports, the one language both he and his American classmates could
communicate in, but it didn't take him long to learn English. He made
friends quickly because of his athletic abilities, love for rock and roll,
and talent for pulling pranks (a few of which were so cruel he says he
has never stopped regretting them). Despite the fact that Benny's father and godmother very heavily
attempted to pressure him into becoming a lawyer, the family tradition,
Benicio knew that just wasn't for him. When he was in college, he heard
that a student play was taking auditions and decided to try out. Only, it
turned out,
you couldn't audition unless you were a drama major and/or a senior. As
he was only a freshman, he immediately changed majors, tried out, and got
the part. Shortly after that, he quit school altogether, moved to New
York, and started working on a career as an actor. Then, he ended up in
Los Angeles, taking acting classes at Stella Adler and building a theater
at the Conservatory to help cover expenses. Two years later, he landed
his first part -- a guest role on "Miami Vice." After a few more television parts, he slowly started to edge his way
into film. He did some bad movies ("Christopher Columbus: The Discovery")
and some good ones ("The Indian Runner" and "Fearless"), and finally, his
persistence was rewarded in 1995, when he landed a role alongside
Kevin Spacey in "Swimming with
Sharks." The two of them reteamed for "The Usual Suspects" and faster
than you could say, "Freddy Fenster," he was famous. Del Toro now lives in Los Angeles, where he maintains a pretty low
profile between movies and hasn't engaged in any serious Hollywood
romances (yay!). He's written and directed a short film, which starred a
pre-famous Matthew McConaughey, and has said he'd like to do more of that
in the future. But first, he's got at least one more movie on its way.
This one is called "Basic" and is about a DEA agent investigating the
disappearance of a legendary Army ranger drill instructor and several of
his cadets after a training exercise goes seriously awry. Be nice to see
Benny play a cop again. Hope he keeps the pot belly. Mrrrrrow!The Boyfriend of the Week
![]() | MacGyver Factor Score: 99.34%. I took a few fractions of a point off just because sometimes Benicio can look REALLY bad. And one of those times was when he was in "Fear and Loathing." While he was perfect for the role (and looked just right for it, too), it's an image that flashes through my head to this very day when I think "Benicio." And, yikes, man, it's not a pretty sight. Outweighed heavily by several other, more handsome roles. But still there, peeking out from the bottom of the pile. Ugh. |
Benicio's IMDB
page.
The Offical BDT Site (lots of
great stuff)
The Official
"Traffic" Site
The Official "The
Pledge" Site
The Official
"Snatch" Site (US)